The Shawnee Tribe’s Behavioral Health Program is providing information in February for Dating Violence Awareness Month. This is a time dedicated to raising awareness about a serious issue that impacts people of all ages, genders, and backgrounds. Dating violence is a pattern of abusive behaviors used to gain power and control over a partner in a romantic relationship. It can take many forms, including physical, emotional, sexual, and digital abuse, and often goes unrecognized until it escalates. While it affects individuals across all demographics, young people between the ages of 16 and 24 experience the highest rates of intimate partner violence, making early education and awareness crucial.
Dating violence may look different in every relationship, but common warning signs include excessive jealousy, controlling behaviors, constant criticism, isolation from friends and family, and monitoring a partner’s activities through technology. Physical signs such as unexplained injuries, or emotional changes like anxiety, depression, or fearfulness around a partner, can also indicate abuse. It’s essential to understand that abuse is never the victim’s fault and can happen to anyone, regardless of their circumstances.
If you or someone you know is experiencing dating violence, help is available. Start by confiding in a trusted friend, family member, or counselor who can offer support and guidance. Resources like the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) and loveisrespect.org provide 24/7 confidential assistance, including safety planning and emotional support. The Shawnee Tribe’s Victim Services Department can also help connect you to needed resources and support. By learning to recognize the signs of dating violence and knowing how to seek help, we can work together to build safer, healthier relationships for everyone.